This one is easy, but girls still think they can change a man. Intuitively, girls know that if the right girl came along, a man would want a girlfriend. Assuming they are special little snowflakes, they dive in thinking they will be the things to change him. Could they be any more deluded? It is true that almost any man will settle down with the right woman, but the problem is that the right woman doesn’t exist for many men.

My answer depends on what you want from the relationship. If you want sex pull back, give her less attention and when you do give her attention, make sure it’s in small doses. Give her a huge rush, and then don’t call her for a week, or better yet, wait for her to call you. Go spend your time with your friends or with other girls. If you want a relationship and you’ve already had sex Don’t. Never go for a relationship with a girl who is dating other guys after you’ve had sex with her.

Your standards are too high. If you’re very hot, maybe those standards are realistic and it’s just hard to find a man of your caliber. For the other 95% of you, you are probably overpricing yourselves. The world is full of nice men looking for girlfriends. You definitely can find a boyfriend, you’re just not satisfied with the men available to you. You want the unicorn who doesn’t exist, but you’re not a unicorn yourself.

This is common for men and women. You can’t get over them because you’re idealizing them. Remember, they’re deeply flawed just like everyone else. Picture their daily routine. They take dumps just like everyone else, they feel envy, they regret mistakes, they accidentally poke themselves in the eye while getting dressed in the morning. The smoothest player I know is also one of the most misogynistic men I’ve ever met.